“There is no magic stronger than the magic of words”
A. France
Conduct an experiment: at least for a few weeks, remove the following words from the language of communication with your loved ones:
- CAN NOT
- SHOULD
- NEED
Replace them with more complex lexical constructions, but more effective in building friendly and constructive communications (“I would like”, “it would be good”, “it is important that”, “I would like”, etc.). Of course, watch the intonations.
You will begin to be heard and understood, relationships and communication will improve. Does everything seem simple? Yes, but with your efforts and desire.
Magic phrases:
- “Thank you”
- “I’m near, I’m with you”
- “You mean so much to me”
- “I need you”
- “Talk to me”
- “I appreciate what you do”
- “Everything is good”
Repeat them more often, these phrases will help you and your loved ones. These simple words will fill communication with feelings and benevolence, improve relationships, and become support and inspiration. We all want to hear them.
What we want to hear:
- polite address
- friendly intonations
- thank you
- compliments
- “i love you”
- kind words
- greeting
- good wishes
- praise
- requests, not orders
- good music
- joyful laughter
Pamper the hearing of your loved ones – you will hear the same in return.
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